5 Secrets To Finding Love
1. Love yourself. Finding self love is a long, difficult process – but it’s crucial to finding love and nessicary to having a healthy relationship. Having confidence in the person you are is important because you need to go into a relationship knowing that you are good enough. That you don’t need to be molded into someone you’re not for someone else. When you have self love, you are giving yourself the upper hand in the fact that you know you’re perfectly fine just the way you are and that you don’t need to change for anyone. When you love yourself, you’re enabling yourself to be capable of being loved, which is the first step in finding love.
2. Know what you want in a man. It’s an unhealthy relationship if you go in knowing that there are things about your significant other that you’re going to want to change. You should NEVER get into a relationship with someone that you know you’re going to want to change. Having an internal list of qualities in a man that are important to you is a great way to prevent this. Knowing what you want in someone is going to make the process of deciding who you are going to be in a relationship a lot easier, and help you find not just any love, but a love that will suit you perfectly.
3. Make a move. This may seem like a no brainer, but a lot of women don’t know that it’s okay if we are the first ones to make the move! By making the first move, you’re asserting that you’re interested and are essentially putting the ball in his court. If he is interested and was hesitant because he wasn’t sure whether you would be down for him or not is no longer an excuse. Not only are you putting the ball in his court, but you’re showing him confidence and men find that extremely attractive. So go for it! Ask him out on a date! What do you have to lose?
4. Learn from your past. If you have been in a relatoinship before, you’d be lying to yourself if you said that you didn’t learn at least one lesson from it. There is always a lesson to take away from any past relationship, so put it to good use! Having expierience and lessons (good or bad) in your back pocket is key to finding a stable, more secure love that you want. Use these lessons to learn from your mistakes and enable yourself for future success. People show up in your life for a reason! Learning from your past will promote your future self to find the proper love that you deserve.
5.If at first you don’t succeed, try try again. So you finally get the nerves to ask out your crush, and he turns you down. Or you succeed, but the date didn’t go as well as you (or he) were hoping. That doesn’t mean that you’re going to be forever alone; it simply means that he isn’t your forever! Just as tip numbner 4 says, learn from your lessons and try again! As tip number 3 says, continue to put yourself out there! Take risks! Make a move! Who knows, maybe the next guy you ask out is your soul mate! As tip number 2 says, know what you want in someone prior to asking them out so you have better odds on the date going well. And of course, as tip number 1 says, love yourself enough to realize that you’ve got this, and if it doesn’t work out, it’s his loss. Your person is out there! So don’t let a few bumps in the road keep you from continuing your journey to find love.